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I will make no attempt to “make sense” of the horrific tragedy that devastated the community of Newtown, Connecticut, and has shaken our nation.

How can we make sense of the senseless murder of twenty children and seven adults? How can we make sense of one deranged individual who was in such a dark place that he shot his own mother, murdered children and then killed himself?

Yesterday my church, like I’m sure countless communities of faith, paused to pray for the families, the community and our nation. Our president spoke on our behalf words of comfort and support.

Now, as we move forward, efforts will be made to prevent this from happening again, or at least minimize the risk. It will be a difficult task.

+ + A Societal Cancer

What we face is more like a cancer than a virus. Our society has turned on itself and these mass murders are the shocking fruit. The perpetrators of these crimes now typically turn the weapons on themselves and have essentially become societal suicide bombers. As the military knows, there is no real defense against a suicide bomber who has reached such a point of desperation and delusion that his own life does not matter.

Responding to this specific crisis with legislation would be a mistake that politicians will likely make.

Responding to the root cause of the crisis would be a better way to go.

And what is that root cause?

The destruction of the family.

I’m not discounting any other factors, but to address problems with our mental health institutions or virtual reality gaming or the drugging of our children or our gun laws or the media culture’s glorification of such violence without dealing with the root cause of our societal decay are vain attempts to mask symptoms.

The statistics back me up on the destruction of the family being the root cause of most of our societal decay, including the violence.

Before I cite the statistics, please do not take these numbers as a condemnation of single-parent moms or dads. There is no condemnation. Many single parent moms and dads are doing double-duty and raising wonderful children.

But the numbers are hard to overlook.

+ + Our Family Crisis

Consider what our family brrokenness has done to society:

* 3 in 10 children grow up in broken homes.

* In the African American community, it’s far worse: two-thirds of black children grow up with one parent.

* More than half of all babies are conceived out of wedlock

* Of those conceived out of wedlock, 4 in 10 are aborted. And so the cycle of violence begins.

* Of the survivors of abortion, half the children born out of wedlock end up in poverty.

Children from broken homes account for:

–63% of teen suicides
–71% of teen pregnancies
–90% of homeless and runaways
–71% of high school dropouts
–75% of all drug users
–85% of behavioral disorders
–70% of those in juvenile detention
–57% of all prison inmates

+ + Building Families In Tough Times

As you know, for the past few weeks I have been on a journey of discovering and sharing lessons from a 2,500-year-old letter written by the prophet Jeremiah to Jewish exiles.

In light of the national discussion that will take place in the coming weeks as we seek to heal and strengthen our land, I find it interesting that at the very center of Jeremiah’s instructions to exiles is an explicit endorsement of family:

“Take wives and become the fathers of sons and daughters, and take wives for your sons and give your daughters to husbands, that they may bear sons and daughters; and multiply there and do not decrease.” (Jeremiah 29:6, NASB)

In the midst of tough times, getting married and thinking about the future do not instinctively come to mind. Marriage is expensive. Children are expensive. Yet in Jeremiah’s letter to exiles, marriage and child bearing are central to the instruction. Perhaps this is because in tough times — at any time, for that matter — the marriage bond is the stabilizing force for individuals, for families, for communities and even for a nation. Marriage and strong families are vital to thriving in exile.

What if our government policies unashamedly focused on the goal of reducing the fatherlessness and divorce rates? What if our laws profoundly preferred those who get married and stay married?

More importantly, what about you and me? After all, our laws only reflect our culture.

What are we actually doing in our families and communities to strengthen marriages? Is it clear in our social circles that sex out of wedlock is wrong? Are we holding young men accountable for their actions, demanding that they take their responsibility as fathers seriously? Do men face any negative societal pressure for putting children and mothers at risk for the sake of fulfilling their own sexual exploits outside the marriage bond?

Many traditional wedding ceremonies include an open acknowledgment by all in attendance of the responsibility to do whatever it takes to help this new couple in their marriage. We should take that commitment a bit more seriously.

Every marriage faces profound times of crisis. Perhaps your prayer or phone call or offer to babysit could ultimately help save a marriage, keep a child from facing long odds and, dare I say, spare a community from an unspeakable horror.

Steve

Resources:
When Tragedy Doesn’t Make Sense (Liberty News)
Fatherlessness statistics
 Father Absence And Youth Incarceration (pdf)
What We Need From Dad (Father’s Day Prezi by Steve Elliott)



Steve Elliott is a husband, father, author and co-founder of Grassfire. Steve launched the concept of Grassfire in 2000 and today heads up one the nation’s largest, and fastest growing online grassroots citizen action networks with more than one million active team members, an affiliated news website (LibertyNews.com) and a social action network (PatriotAction.net). A guest on dozens of radio and television programs, Steve has appeared on Fox News’ Neil Cavuto, Sean Hannity, CNN, CNBC, Alan Colmes, Mike Gallagher, Glenn Beck and Janet Parshall. He is the author of The Grassfire Effect: How One Small Spark Can Change Your World (2005: Broadman & Holman) that outlines a fundamental principle of individual and organizational growth. A graduate of Regent University (M.A. Public Policy), Steve is also the author of 21 Supreme Court Issues Facing America (2006), The Book On Obama (2012) and Thriving In Exile (2012).

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